by
Mari L. Barnes
Vast
amounts of research show that by 3 or 4 years old, children living in the
United States are aware of physical and cultural differences among people. We
also know that they learn the prevailing social attitudes toward these
differences, even if they have no direct contact with those who are different.
Our
children are the exact opposite of “color blind” and the parental practice of
silence on the issue of differences has been instrumental in producing children
who are unequipped to move effectively in a world that is becoming increasingly
color-filled. We must acknowledge diversity. The differences are real and the
children can see them. These differences become dangerous only when either
inferior or superior value labels are imposed.
To
assist parents in broaching the subject of difference in a way that children
can appreciate, we need look no further than Winnie-the-Pooh by AA Milne.
Christopher
Robin (for our purposes, the insulated white kid) is a welcomed visitor to the
Hundred Acre Wood. There he interacts with Pooh, Piglet, Kanga and Roo, Rabbit,
Eeyore, Owl and Tigger. All of the animals differ, physically and
temperamentally. Those differences are not ignored; rather, variances are
described and frequently help move the story to a satisfactory conclusion.
In one
story, Owl's house blows down in a storm, trapping Pooh and Piglet and Owl
inside. Pooh encourages Piglet (the only one small enough to do so) to escape
and rescue them all. Piglet’s difference saves the day.
Pooh
offers many opportunities to discuss the subjectivity of perceptions at a
child’s level of understanding. Although Winnie-the-Pooh himself agrees with
his friends that he “has no Brain,” his ideas are often clever. He rides
Christopher Robin's umbrella to rescue Piglet from a flood and gets Eeyore out
of the river by dropping a large rock on one side of him to wash him towards
the bank.
Adams,
Bell and Griffin (2007) define social justice as both a process and a goal.
“The goal of social justice education is full and equal participation of all
groups in a society that is mutually shaped to meet their needs. Social justice
includes a vision of society that is equitable and all members are physically
and psychologically safe and secure.”1
The
denizens of the Hundred Acre Wood demonstrate social justice at its most
elemental. We can begin educating our children in the process of social justice
simply by opening the discussion. There are many children’s books that
demonstrate friendship, fairness and cooperation. These tools for building a
just society are as close as your child’s bookcase.
1Reference:
Teaching for Diversity and Social Justice: A Sourcebook. Edited by Maurianne
Adams, Lee Anne Bell, and Pat Griffin.
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Mari L Barnes writes for children under the
pen name of Mari Lumpkin and for adults as ML Barnes. Her books, Parting
River Jordan and Crossing River Jordan are proof that church can be
funny. Mari’s company, Flying Turtle Publishing, specializes in books that
families can share.
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